I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I was heartbroken to hear about this from a Facebook friend. I had known Paul a little over the years through online support groups for laser surgery complications. (I have vision and pain issues from surgery a few years after Paul's.) I know so many people with persistent neuropathic pain after a laser surgery. The profound impact when the surgeries go awry in particular ways is extremely difficult for anyone who hasn't experienced it to understand.